it was dark for many days, cold as well. was room bound, had no access or permissions to step out. no fresh air. but then it rained, sky became clear- really blue. and then the sun shined. got chance to step out for 10 mins. clear air and skies- presented hope, positivity and things to look forward to.

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  1. The harsh words you said to a loved one which you should not have
  2. The message which you should have replied but you didnt
  3. The phone call of a friend you didnt return back
  4. The love and gratitude you should have expressed but you held back
  5. The argument with a dear one which you could have avoided
  6. The body scan you should have got done which you postponed
  7. The insurance you should have bought but you thought is waste of money
  8. The wrong food you could have avoided but you still ate
  9. The job or boss you left for a little bit more money

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patience especially while listening in a group setting, is most under-rated skills. It is so hard to stay quiet, hold onto your point of view, right when you hear others really are doing BS. I have realized in face to face meetings, virtual meetings, or one-o-one calls, people just want to throw up their opinion. Watch your behavior, are you able to stay quiet for 5 additional seconds when you are tempted to speak.

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Read in another blog a few days back. UYBJ- Use your best judgment, it has just stuck with me, totally all over my mind and brain. A simple concept that probably can be applied to any situation, whether personal or professional. Day 54 with a difficult situation, it seems like i have used UYBJ every single day.

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